Dear Ellysia, about two years ago on a rainy morning, as I was enjoying my coffee on the couch, scrolling through the endless feeds of social media platforms. For the hundredth time, I’ve seen another blog post with another woman who I had no idea who she was, making millions from OnlyFans.
So many women of all ages have managed to make from a few thousand dollars to millions, and I wanted to do the same. Those days that I was thinking about signing up for an account, I started dating a guy, and I ended up being with him for over two years now. I wanted to talk to him about me opening an OnlyFans account, so I asked a friend of mine to come by for coffee, and when we were the three of us, I asked my friend what she thought about all those women making money from the platform.
My boyfriend immediately started saying that those women are a disgrace; and the biggest issue we face as a humanity. He started saying that those women should be ashamed of themselves and that sex was the only thing they cared about. I’m not an expert, but I think he’s wrong, in every and each way there is about this topic. So as he said all of those things, the same day I started thinking and wanting to start an OnlyFans account even more. I want to keep things mysterious – like not showing my face, maybe wearing a mask. I’d like to post sensual and NSFW pictures and short videos of myself, but nothing too hardcore or crazy, just good enough to earn as many paid subscribers as possible.
Why am I telling you all of this?
I’m not sure, but I wanted to share them with someone, and maybe get a reply that’s good enough for me to take the next step. What should I do? I’m thinking of breaking up with him, as I don’t like some of his views on the topic, and I find him mean, especially when he shared how he truly thinks of all those women using OnlyFans to make a living. On the other hand, he’s a good person, sweet and romantic, but I’m also tired of working the same 9-5 jobs, and I want to try and maybe change my wealth, even if that’s by showing a little more of what I am comfortable with.
Dear Anonymous,
First off, thank you for sharing your story with me. It sounds like you’ve been on quite the emotional rollercoaster, and I’m honored you chose to reach out.
Let’s break this down.
Your boyfriend’s reaction to OnlyFans is, well, intense. It’s clear he has strong opinions, but it’s also important to remember that his views don’t define your worth or your choices. If you’re considering starting an OnlyFans account, it’s crucial to do it for yourself and not as a reaction to his negativity.
Now, about the mask idea – very Phantom of the Opera meets modern-day entrepreneurship. If you feel comfortable and confident, go for it! Just make sure you understand the platform’s guidelines and protect your privacy.
As for your relationship, it’s a tough call. If his views are making you question your compatibility, it might be worth having an open and honest conversation with him. Relationships are about mutual respect and understanding, and if you can’t find common ground, it might be time to reevaluate.
Remember, life is too short to be stuck in a job you don’t love or a relationship that doesn’t support your dreams. Follow your heart, but also use your head. And hey, if you do decide to don that mask and take the plunge, just make sure it’s a fabulous one!
Wishing you all the best,
Ellysia